Let’s be honest. Wedding planning isn’t just choosing flowers and table settings — it’s navigating a minefield of expectations.

From uninviting guests to dealing with bridesmaid drama, couples are faced with decisions that feel personal, political and sometimes impossible to get right. That’s where etiquette comes in. Not as a list of outdated rules, but as a way to protect your peace while keeping things kind.

In this blog, we’re answering the most common wedding planning questions couples ask — with zero fluff, real solutions, and a whole lot of perspective.

Waipuna Estate isn’t just a venue—it’s a weekend waiting to happen. Think sweeping views, sun-drenched lounging, and your wedding unfolding over three unforgettable days. If you’ve been craving something more spacious, intentional, and you—this is it.

Looking for standout events in Christchurch this winter? The Midwinter Session is where local flavour meets luxe vibes—think live music, artisan eats, top-tier drinks, and a VIP Platinum Lounge designed by us to bring the mood. Cosy, curated, and completely unforgettable.

An unforgettable marquee wedding on a private Akaroa property—full of editorial styling, custom florals, and behind-the-scenes chaos (tree blockages included). From mocha-toned details to dahlia-covered arches, this is a modern love story brought to life under canvas. Discover the beauty, the drama, and the dream team who made it all happen.

We’ve worked at Te Pae more times than we can count—and we’re proud to be one of their trusted partners. That means we know the space, the flow —and how to make it all work for you, your brand and your event.

Last week I popped onto Radio NZ to chat about wedding budgets—and yep, we addressed that spicy $87,000 “average” doing the rounds. Spoiler: it’s not the norm. That figure reflects a tiny percentage of high-end weddings with full-service planners, not what most Kiwi couples spend.

Clear marquee weddings in Christchurch bring sky-high style (literally). Say goodbye to boring spaces and hello to sunsets, stars, and seamless vibes. Your dream day deserves a clear marquee that’s as iconic as your love story.

The biggest mistakes couples make when planning their wedding - and making sure you get on top of them! A must-read as you plan your NZ based wedding.

A moody, sophisticated cocktail wedding at The Great Hall in Christchurch styled to perfection — lush florals, luxe lounge zones, and clever styling in every corner.

Think of this as our friendly post-wedding checklist and we’ve even divided this into two sections – for the days post-wedding to the weeks and months ahead.

Have you been to an event where you were confused, whether it just wasn’t what you expected or something just felt a little off or misaligned? Communication comes in all forms and how you style an event is one way of communicating your brand and business. If you don’t get this right, it’s hard to connect with your guests, clients and potential customers – making it pointless when the goal is to ramp up your brand awareness and ultimately make sales.

A must read on the small but mighty details that create a stir if not planned for.

Avoid the stress and rush-around by taking our top tips and making a plan now.

Planning your next party in Christchurch?
We’ve got 12 tried and true Christchurch venues for you to check out as you find the perfect venue for your bash!

From sleek cocktail furniture to our signature light orbs and a bold red carpet moment, this Lexus showroom launch was a masterclass in intentional event styling. With no set brief and a last-minute date change, we delivered a seamless, design-led experience that balanced luxury with logistics - proving that expert event styling is about more than just looking good. It's about creating moments that feel effortless, elevated, and unforgettable.

Mel and Murray’s Tai Tapu Hotel wedding was rich, relaxed and completely them. With deep burgundy foliage, soft peach florals, rust-toned details and a guest-forward approach, their day felt intimate without losing any of the wow. Add incredible food, a private marquee, and one very good helicopter moment, and you’ve got a wedding that was as considered as it was memorable.

Are you planning on hosting a seated wedding dinner? Wedding styling is essential in creating the overall look and feel of your big day. You would want to set up something memorable for your guests to enjoy, and a well-thought table setting is one way to achieve this goal.

From drawings and image inspiration, pattern, mocks, fabric choice and the final garment; you are there every step of the way to make your wedding dress everything you ever dreamed of. So how do you get your dream wedding dress? Sarah Stoute Bespoke is here to help you create the magic!

Marquee weddings are the ultimate dream! What does a marquee wedding cost really? What elements should you be thinking about? We dive into all the nitty gritty - from budgets, to common misconceptions and other decisions you need to make in deciding whether a marquee wedding suits you - and your budget.